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About disclosure: the need of confidant

I need a confidant. When we disclose ourselves, we need another very receptive person at the end of the thread who can truly listen to us. Such person is hard to find. It is harder when you are at a stage in your life where friendships get loose and people who mattered now seem to have faded away from your daily life. It is in those moments that you want to say to them how much they did matter to you, that somehow they still matter even with the distance and that you need their help not to feel so lost anymore. It's not only about people. It's also about the activities you used to do and now seem just useless to start again. Every project you ever had has terminated (or is being ended) and leaves place to new ones. But it is hard not to get stuck in the past scented with all those good and maybe fake memories. Furthermore it is hard to conceive that you still matter to your old friends even with the non-responsiveness and silence between us. So how to let go all this, acc