If choose we must, how to ?
[To start off here I want to show my weaknesses or the fear that I often experienced through the process of growing up and personal development. Why should I be afraid of being authentic and opening my feelings and thoughts to anyone ? I have no pride or image to defend or nothing to feel ashamed of.] Who I am to preach something I cannot even pretend to start achieving myself ? How presumptuous am I to think that this is the right way for anyone at all but me ? There are so many ways to fill the void in our lives, so many plans or projects to dream about and maybe start achieving. The question is: if choose we must (and I believe we do) how to choose ? I have a hard time seeing my friends being satisfied with their current paths and letting themselves get carried away by the flow of life, enjoying their youth without much caring about the future prospects (or at least they do not seem to worry much). How come they are not all so eager and ambitious to start their own project