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About life goals

Emotional maturity still seems very far away. I start wondering if having a plan or definite project would help. I'd love to discuss about it seriously but people are too proud or too fake to care I guess. Having a goal as a community would be easier, helping each other out. But in the meanwhile I have to face an existential decision by myself. If I had to assess myself, I would say I can care pretty much decently for another human being, let him/her talk, let him/her clarify her mind. But it seems like I cannot care for myself. Maybe it's a good thing that society somehow forces us to work so much so that we do not have to worry to much about how little we know about ourselves. So introspection is the key ? Meditate every day ? I have always seen meditation as a way to get rid (or at least dampen) our problems and worries. It does not give any solution. It brings us closer to the present moment and makes us appreciate it even more (instead of complaining like I am now =D). B

About disclosure

If there is one thing on Earth which intrigues me most, it is for sure everyone's inner life. What is bothering right now ? What are your hopes in life ? And all those similar questions... However I cannot understand why so few people are willing to speak about their issues, motivations, ambitions and other personal-related topics. We are having so much fun dancing, partying, drinking in order to create a fake feeling of community/belonging but what stays in the end ?  To my eyes life is there to share those moments of joy but also the downsides of them (not only the hangovers :P). Wearing masks is the best way to avoid being hurt but also the best way to avoid being understood. Therefore I am willing to disclose myself as much as it gets because I wish I could the world through your eyes and you to see it through mine. That is why I created a forum to share anonymously what is on your mind and thus feel free to contribute to the threads and help us discover one another and